Have been working at coming out with my interpretation of I-Ching and just completed two interesting hexagram relating to successful relationship building. There are 31咸 Affection – Engage Emotionally and 32 恒 Lasting – Permanence . Relationship begins with engaging emotionally (31) and then making it permanent (32). The advice for building emotionally engaged relationship is (abstracted from the postings referred above and adopted for man-woman relationship) are:
I-Ching 31-64 Hexagrams are about people to people relationships. Hope I interest you to discover the wisdom of the Chinese Classics.
- Starts with a small stirring of heart.
- Don’t move yet, wait for greater support. (See the other signals)
- Move correctly and not follow the crowd in the sub-standard ways.
- Don’t hesitate in doing the right things openly. Others will know your intention and stay away.
- Boldly continue to the end. Complete the transformation (engagement).
- Proclaim and celebrate success. Don’t be shy about it. (wedding)
- Break big vision into smaller steps. Move step by step. (Don’t propose on 1st date!)
- Be clear of your mission and values, then boldly continue. (Respect)
- Don’t yield to pressure or temptations, stay on the right ways. ( Don’t cross the lines).
- Be patience, stay put and wait for the opportunity. (Right time for Proposal)
- Don’t be man or woman pleaser, stay on to righteousness. (Giving in creates regrets of life)
- Build permanence in righteous behavior from the top. (Man takes the lead and responsibility for a good family).
I-Ching 31-64 Hexagrams are about people to people relationships. Hope I interest you to discover the wisdom of the Chinese Classics.
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